Some Things To Consider When Choosing A Psychic Or Medium
Are you considering having a reading with a psychic or medium? If so, there are a few things to consider to help ensure sure you have the best experience possible. Simple things you can do easily before booking an appointment.
I began my journey with Spiritualism well over thirty years ago. Through the years I have seen a lot of readers and received a lot of readings. When I began my journey psychics and mediums were not so commonplace. As a matter of fact, the idea of them was not even that well excepted. Thankfully much has changed in a matter of a mere thirty years or so.
These days it seems psychics and medium readers are everywhere but which one is right for you? Regardless if you are familiar to the world of psychics and mediums, choosing a reader can be a challenge. To help it is always good to have in mind a few questions to answer to help make choices easier. Likewise, it is advisable to do a little research before you give your money to anyone for any type of service rendered. Doing research before spending money is still something which has remained popular over the years, and will always remain good advice.
What Type Of Reading Are You Looking For?
There are psychic readers, there are mediums and then there are psychic mediums. Some readers may give information about what they perceive in your future, some may disagree with that process. There are readers who give advice and counseling while others do not. Then there are readers do all of the above in with their readings.
It is a good idea to think about your desired outcome before you decide to look for a psychic or medium. What it is that you want to get out of a reading? When you know your answers to these questions you can begin your search for a reader much better equipped than not.
Sometimes It Is Not Only Our Loved One Who Wish To Communicate
A reading with a medium is often thought to be only for communication with loved after death. The theme is to let us of how they are doing well beyond of the veil of earthly life. This, however, is not the only reason why our loved ones reach out to us in readings.
People do not often realize how we all have many spirits around us. Many them we may not have known in our lifetime. Yes, we may have loved ones around us but there are others who also have information to give us in a reading with a medium. These caring spirits desire to help with our endeavors. They want to see us succeed in life with ease and with grace. A reading with an experienced medium provides a prime opportunity for our spirit helpers to communicate.
Make Make Sure You Feel Comfortable A Reader
First and foremost you should be comfortable with the person whom you choose to have a psychic or mediumship reading with. There is a multitude of information which could be brought up and brought forward in a psychic and mediumship reading. Information which maybe you might expect to hear, but some you may not. In a reading with a good psychic or medium, you may actually be told things that perhaps you have never spoken to anyone. Things which may be highly personal or could trigger emotions. These reasons alone make it important for you to feel comfortable with the reader under your consideration.
No One Can Tell You What To Do
A psychic or mediumship reading is always about bringing forward information to you. Only you walk in your shoes, no one can know you and your experiences as you do. For this reason, no one can make a choice for you regardless of who they are.
Free will is a condition of humanity. Our reality in life is that we all have to make our own choices every day. No one, and no thing ,can ever make decisions for us. Life constantly presents us situations. Even though at times it may appear that a choice has been made for us, when it comes down to the nitty-gritty, the choices have always been our own.
This is a reality any well trained, experienced psychic or medium understands. They know any information brought forward in a reading is just that, information to be presented. A reputable psychic or medium will not tell you what choices to make. It is their job to give you the information so you can make choices however you decide.
A trained psychic and medium is aware that no higher spirit or entity would ever tell you what to do, regardless of any source they claim to be. Beings of love want us to succeed but through our own ability to make our own decisions. If discover evidence of a psychic or medium pressuring clients into decisions making, perhaps you may wish to consider what I have just explained.
Questions To Consider In Choosing A Reader
Things to perhaps ask yourself before choosing a psychic or medium for a reading may include following.
Do I get a good feeling about this person? Do I feel I can trust this person?
As mentioned previously, a multitude of different kinds of information may come forward in a reading. With this being said you may wish to consider how you feel about this reader perhaps knowing your feelings and perhaps even secrets.
Is this person a positive person with a good attitude?
Something in life we have all seen is that birds of a feather flock together. This is not only true with the living it also applies in the world of spirit. With this being said, you may wish to consider the attitude of the reader and with this the company they unknowing keep.
Does the reader tell stories of the work they have done with other clients?
It is always great to hear a good story but, what happens if that story concerns you and your private life? A reputable psychic and medium understand that a client’s privacy is of utmost importance. What goes on in any reading should always remain between the client and the reader.
Many reputable readers make it a point to forget information brought forward in readings. To the extreme that after the reading a client is unable to get information as the reader can truly not remember what was said. This is solely for the sake of the client’s privacy.
What is the motivation or driving force behind the psychic or medium?
Many psychics and mediums have had their abilities since they were young children. Understanding why they do the work they do, what motivates them, can give you keys in understanding if they are the reader for you.
Its Always A Good Idea To Do Your Research
If you are uncertain on how you feel about any reader you can always do some research. Look for any information on the reader you can find. See if other people have been satisfied with the work the of this person. Check for testimonials and also search engines provide for a multitude of easily available information.
Regardless of any information, you discover on any reader, ultimately only you can decide who is best for you. With this, the best question you can ask anyone about a reader is to yourself. Only you can know how you feel about someone. Trust your own instincts when you ask yourself, how do I feel about this person, do I like them enough to allow them the privilege of performing a psychic or mediumship reading for me?
For more information you may enjoy this article on Different Types Of Mediums found here.
Eileen Gonzalez is a Medium in Edmonton, Alberta Canada. She has been involved in Spiritualism for over 30 years and is an Ordained Minister with the Spiritual Science Fellowship of Canada as well as being an Olorisha in the tradition of Lukimi. With her work she has served as a public demonstration medium, a public speaker and teaches classes on Mediumship, Energy Healing, Crystals and more.